When it comes to dating and relationships there is no cookie-cutter format. However, there are some things that can be done to make or break a relationship.

1.You don’t say what you really mean

This was the number one complaint that men expressed. According to most men, women say one thing but mean another, and then expect for men to somehow be a mind reader, read between the lines and figure out what they really want.

2.They hate it when women behave like victims

If men have to be the night in shining armor then who is it that women need to be. If you guessed rescued… Ding, ding, ding; you got it!

Okay, ladies, men do not mind opening and closing doors, picking up the tab every now and again and living happily ever after with you. But, let’s face it if you’re looking for a night and shining armor to save you, well perhaps you’re going to have to save yourself because Prince Charming is a myth.

3.Stop stalking his Facebook page

So, a woman with big assets and a big you know what sends him a friend requests and he accepts. Does this really mean that he wants to bonk her?  Absolutely… Not!

I get it ladies. Since you think your man is a stud your belief is that every good-looking woman out there wants him. Well according to men, not every woman wants them and even if they do want your man, it’s his choice if he takes the bait. For the love of GOD, learn to trust your man or have the confidence enough to let him go if you do not trust him. But, don’t, don’t stalk his Facebook page, and tell him who he can or cannot be “friends” with.

4.Stop blaming men for what your last man did to you!

This should be number one in my book, but it’s number four because a lot of men get that some women have been really hurt by men they loved. But, on the other hand, what the last man did to you is not this man’s fault so please, leave the baggage in the past and accept the man in your life for who he is.

5.Using sex as a weapon

Okay so it’s your body and you can do what you want to, cry if you want to, make love if you want to. However, if you are using sex as a weapon, i.e., withholding the goodies to get a man to do what you want when you want it, don’t be surprised if that tactic comes back to bite you in the a**!

Men absolutely abhor women that use sex to get in the relationship, but then withhold sex once they are in the relationship. And, trust when I say, most of these guys get that you don’t want to have sex with them when the relationship is going bad or things aren’t working out. Hell, they don’t want to sleep with you either. But, if things are going good and you go in with a healthy sex life and then start holding out because you aren’t getting your way, the relationship won’t last.

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